Jan. 2013 (Above photo)

Please send email to me at....     MANofDIEGO@AOL.com

MARCH 2014 (below)

MARCH 2015 (below)


I AM SEEKING A WONDERFUL WOMAN FOR LOVE AND MARRIAGE and FUN, and....... companionship, friendship, the good times, the bad times, and just all of it.!

Yes, I am offering a $1,000 CASH reward, a finder's fee  (recompensa en Espanol)  for the person who is responsible for me meeting the woman that I marry.  And NO, contrary to what you may think, this is not a joke! :)))  I am seriously interested finding and falling in love with Ms Right and getting married and living happily ever after.   I am offering $1,000 CASH!  And, the finder of the wife will be the guest of honor at our wedding!  :)))

If you know of and attractive lady who might be interested in a guy like me, just copy and paste  my profile and pictures, and  send them to her, along with my email address.  She can then email me if she's interested, and of course, she would be totally anonymous. We can talk online and if she's local, we can meet for coffee and see what happens.  If she's not local....well, we'll see what happens online ;  Maybe she would come here for us to meet.   (I have many character references!)


I am one of the good guys - I am honest, responsible, reliable, full of integrity, and totally faithful  in a relationship. Character is important:  If I tell you something - it's the truth... If I say that I will do something - I will do it!  I'm not a player, but I like to play!

I am healthy, physically, I'm 5'7" and 175 lbs...workout some,  in OK shape but could lose10 -15  pounds which would melt away  quickly with some good home cooking and great love making! <wink, wink>!

Am  romantic (like holding hands, cuddling, kissing &PDA).  I love kids, animals, nature, most music, museums and the arts in general, movies, plays, older musical groups in concert, and enjoying the beautiful California scenery and beaches.

I have had several business:  I was a florist for more than 30 years and owned several shops in Boston and Ft Lauderale, so I love flowers.  I also organized hundreds of social events with a band or DJ, so I love music.  Currently, working on a couple of things, but I am driving for Lyft & Uber in the meantime... I  love driving!  I also have a couple of small web activities.

I'm your average, Jeep driving, blue collar type of guy, but I don't drink to excess ever, don't smoke and don't do illegal drugs (might do a little mj).  Played a little softball, tennis, and did snow skiing and bowling, but haven't done any of these lately, just some jet skiing and apres` skiing ha,ha!!   I like American and ethnic dining,and open to entertainment that the woman might like.

I have great credit, always pay bills on time - no debts, never bankcrupt,  and a have few assets, including a  a great little condo in Ft Lauderdale, overlooking a sparkling  canal with little fish popping out of the the water and boats sitting on it,  less than 10 minutes from Ft Lauderale Beach.

I'm not intellectual but am informed on current world events and the economy;  I'm not sophisticated but own 2 tux's!

My primary cook book is, "A man, a can, a microwave"!  LOL! I hate anything to do with the kitchen except eating and  I do eat fairly healthy, but  at night I fall into the junk food trap. (Google the song "Junk food Junkie").  So, I don't  cook, but I'll help with the clean up;   I can't fix a thing, but I'll do the windows; and I like doing the "little things" for that special woman.

Politically, I'm sort of in the  middle and I can be politically incorrect and irreverent, 

I am open to all ethnicities and all ages up or down, if the chemistry is there!

I've been married twice. (totally faithful both times) The first time we just weren't right for each other, but got to great kids out of the marriage, and the second time, I was a jerk....that was 17 years ago!  Don't plan on making the same mistakes again.


The woman that I am seeking is ok with what I have and what I don't have.  She should have a pretty face, be in half way decent shape, as I am, and not be "high style" "high maintenance"  or a work-aholic or ladder climber wanting to be CEO of IBM!  She should want to make our relationship the top priority in her life, as I would.  I am looking for a fun woman who is active but not one who rides a motorcycle, climbs mountains, wants to sky dive or bungee jump,  quads, or swims with sharks, etc,  but still she is fun. She doesn't have to be perfect - just perfect for me! :)))

I am looking for a woman probably 55-65, but she could be of ANY age ....younger or older,  up or down, if the chemistry is there!

"I've been searchin' for the daughter of the devil himself and an angel in white...a woman who's a little of both, but she's been no where in sight"  The Eagles, "One of these nights (I'm gonna find her)".  And so, a somewhat adventurous woman, but definitely not prudish woman.

I'm looking for a woman who is lower maintenance ($ wise) and easy...
 "I don't want clever conversation - I never want to work that hard"    Billy Joel "Just the way you are".

 I am not looking for a Barbie, but no heavy weight women, either.  If she's a taller, that's ok with me.  Chemistry is what matters!

TO BE HONEST AND UPFRONT, HERE ARE SOME OF THE REASONS THAT WOMEN ARE NOT INTERESTED IN ME, so it just depends on what you're looking for and what's important to you:

1)   I don't fly (in planes). (But I will take fun road trips anywhere & maybe short cruises)

2)  I am not LOADED with money and I do work.  No interest in retiring (but I can take time whenever i want)  

3)  I am not religious (but she can be of any main stream religion if not practicing...much)

4) I am over 68 ( but I'm told that I look and act much younger,  and I have a lot of energy and in good shape)

5) I am living in San Diego, but in the future will probably want to spend some time in Winter  at my condo in Pompano Beach Florida to be closer to my kids on the East Coast, who I don't see very often since I don't fly.  And I possibly may want to move to Florida at a much later date in the future for the same reason. .

You can see me being interviewed by the Boston Herald, Dec. 2012  at..



 by ABC TV San Diego, Oct 2014 at 


I'm Hoping to hear from that special woman - maybe you or someone that you know?!?

RECENT PHOTOS would be a requirement for a conversation.

Thank you and best wishes to all who took time to take a look and or respond!  


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